A Guide to Planning your Intimate Wedding or Elopement

Hey you two!

First off, huge congratulations on your engagement! What an exciting time, and I’m so happy for you both! Now, it’s all about figuring out how you want to celebrate your love in a way that feels totally right for you. Whether it’s an elopement, an intimate wedding with your closest, or just the two of you and your kids, here are some ideas to help you plan a day that’s as unique as your love story.

1. Keep It Intimate (Just You, or With a Few Special People)

It’s all about what feels true to you as a couple. Whether that means sneaking away for a quiet, romantic elopement or gathering your nearest and dearest, this is your time to focus on what matters. If you’re dreaming of including your kids or celebrating with close friends and family, that’s absolutely beautiful, too.

2. Find Your Perfect Location

The UK is full of stunning spots for a romantic elopement. You could be surrounded by the rugged beauty of Cornwall, tucked away in the Scottish Highlands, or somewhere quietly special in the countryside. Your location should speak to who you are as a couple and set the tone for your day.

3. Your Dream Venue (Budget-Friendly or Luxe!)

You don’t need a big venue to make a big impact. A cozy cottage, a beautiful garden, or even your own backyard can be perfect. If you’re wanting something a little more luxe, there are some amazing locations that make for a truly magical celebration. Whatever your budget, there’s a way to make it feel special – and I’m happy to help you make it work.

4. Personalise Your Vows

This is one of the most meaningful parts of your ceremony – it’s your chance to speak from the heart. Personalised vows are so powerful. It doesn’t have to be a grand speech – it’s about expressing your love in a way that feels true to who you are. Write what feels real to you, whether you want to include special memories or share what you love most about each other.

5. Make It Your Own

Your day should reflect who you are as a couple, and that can be in the details – from your outfits to the music, to the food, and how you celebrate. If you love nature, consider an outdoor elopement; if you’re a foodie, maybe a private dinner or picnic. There are so many ways to make it uniquely yours.

6. Photography that’s True to You

This is a day you’ll want to remember forever, so make sure you choose a photographer who gets your vibe. I’d love to help capture these special moments for you, but whatever photographer you choose, it’s important to ensure they’ll capture your day authentically and beautifully.

7. Be Present

When the day comes, take a deep breath and let it all sink in. Whether you’re alone, with just your kids, or with a few close ones, enjoy every single moment. Don’t rush through the day – it’s all about celebrating your love, your way.

8. Keeping Your Budget in Check

Don’t stress about the costs! There are ways to make it feel luxurious without overspending. Opt for an elopement that’s more intimate, with a smaller guest list. DIY elements like décor or flowers can add personal touches without a hefty price tag. Plus, I can help point you in the direction of vendors and ideas that can work for whatever budget you have.

9. Luxury Options

If you’re dreaming of a little extra luxury, I’ve got you covered! Whether you want to add a surprise photoshoot, a stunning location, or an unforgettable experience, I work with a variety of amazing suppliers who can make your day feel really special, no matter what kind of budget you’re working with.

I absolutely love planning elopements and helping couples bring their vision to life. If you need any advice or help, or if you’re ready to start planning, don’t hesitate to get in touch. I’m here to make your day as unique and unforgettable as your love!

Can’t wait to hear about your ideas and plans!

Louise x